Turkish delight

September 15 2015 7 pm viewer tasted something very delicious and interesting ,very different altogether. ☺☺No ,No, I am not talking about any dish but whole new experience of watching a series or drama from Turkey. This was the day when the first episode of Turkish series "Feriha" was telecast. A different Story , beautiful actors and actress, beautiful location, every character show case their importance ,to the point story. It was instant hit with the Indian viewer.

we were used to Saas-Bahu drama that run  up to 3 years .The story line changes as per TRP irrespective of story that was . The type of domestic politics and intrigue among the members of family were shown was out of proportion. It did not seem natural . Those viewers who wanted change and was bored by these Saas-Bahu drama it was a delight for them.Watching something different, something fresh . Zee Zindagi was such a hit that it gave zee TV and other TV channel dearth of TRP and viewership. 

After feriha, "Fatmagul" happened. It was such a heart touching and emotional story very well portrayed by Beren Serat and Engin Akyürek . Those who were not much convince with Feriha they were finally fallen for Fatmagul. The turkish Ladies made their way very smoothly into the hearts of Indian viewers.

A superb comedy series came up that was "The Little Lord" absolutely hilarious .Wonderful comic timing of the kid Emir Berke Zincirdi and the other cast. The comical journey of the child tensed about his parents planning for divorce. We might have been able to watch the second season but it was not possible due to Untimely demises of  Aaga jaan played by Zeki Alasya  in an accident

Another surprise  that stole the heart was "Kuzey Guney" awesome story of two brothers who fall in love with the same girl . A very thoughtful and well written plot. The blue eyed handsome men of turkey Kivanç Tatlitug, Bugra Gülsoy. Just loved Öykü Karayel. They are seamless actors. Another Series "Love Story" was also equally good.

one of the most important aspect of these series were that they were either 50 or 80 episodes. Another thing that I have observed that there was no display of religion in the series. No celebration of prominent festivals of Turkey. where as in Indian series the celebration of festival eats up a week  .

Zee Zindagi stopped airing the content and was shifted to online platform called Ozee in July 2017.Those who don't have access to internet was left stunned and saddened.

Türk dramını seviyorum

I love turkish drama

Happy And Satisfying !!!

We will be entering into new year after a day.Was just trying to recall what all happened and how I feel about days and months of 2017 pat comes the reply from heart "You are happy and satisfied Darling" !! That's the feeling which I wanted to feel and I achieved it.Kudos to me ♥.

 What was that which turned this  year into satisfying one it was the decision to do what I enjoy doing. yeah I was bored by my corporate job so resigned just  before Jan 2017 and joined where I can impart knowledge ,spread love , humanity,discipline,joy and mannerism. Celebrating every day as new and wonderful.celebrating every festivals, important dates with zeal and enthusiasm.

In the next year too I will doing what I enjoy .I do have some plans and I am gonna implement them.Creativity is something which attract me a lot... hoping my 2018 will be creative enough to talk about :).

                                Days And Months Gonna Change

                                Circumstances and Time Gonna Change

                                But Me & You gonna Remain Same

                                Lets Welcome 2018 with Zeal And Exuberance

 Thank You Almighty for bestowing me with love and warmth.

A very Happy and Prosperous New Year to all  !!

Ek Sacchai .......

Yun apni gurbat ka bandobast kiya tha usne
Bhure thonge se apni kitab ki jild ko cover kiya tha usne..

Purani kitabon se padhna sikha tha
aise usne apni garibi ko samjhna sikha tha...

Khali safed panno ko ikkatha karke nayi copiyan banayi thi
Jaise usne apni garibi ko safed chaader se chupayi thi...

50 paise ki pencil ke liye 2 din intezar karna sikha tha
Bachi hui choti hoti pencil se apni garibi ko sahna sikha tha...

Koi Rikshaw,gaadi,cycle se jata tha school usne apne pairon ko pahiya banaya tha,
Yun usne apne garibi ko chalna sikhaya tha....

Thand mai thuthurte ,barsat mai bheegte,Garmi mai tilmilate usne school ka safar tay kiya
Aise usne apni garibi ko maza lena sikhaya tha..

Yun apne gurbat ka bandobast kiya tha
Usne apni mehnat se apne mustaqbil ka roushan sitara kiya tha .....

The Golden Days……… 

This Teacher Day reminded my Old school days. I saw the excitement of my 3 years old nephew who started going to school few months ago. Even we were full of enthusiasm on such occasion. The activities we used to do 2-3 days before -Preparing Cards using all the creativity sense one can have, selecting gifts, small bunch of flowers. Although plucking flowers for teachers from others garden was the regular activity, I tell you it was fun ;) .

It was normal feeling of every school going kids that “oohh Nooo not again ,tomorrow is school “ !!! Hate rising early, it was better if we were of our Papa’s age going to office at 10am. Later on in life realized that being kid has more benefits.

I remember my Geography Teacher Mrs.  Iyer a south Indian was very cool nature lady, loosely tied Hair with red rose bud tucked in her hair band. We all used to cheers when she enters into the class with long Good afternoon .Last I heard she went back to her home in Chennai.  

My literature Teacher Miss Jyotika was very beautiful short height .She had long straight hair always spread on her shoulders. She died early due to illness after marriage. Really missed them .My all others subject teachers have really indeed played a very important role in shaping what I am today. 

No Tension, No worries Nothing …. It was carefree days J .Fun Periods were PT, Drawing, Singing, and of course the friends. The concept of Best Friend was like life cannot be without friends. Silly fights on School bus for window seat  J . Participating in Dance for Annual day functions are some of the memorable moments. I do not know whether nowadays school children play these Games or not which we used to play Kabaddi, Kho Kho, Hide & Seek poshampa bhai poshampa, Denga Pani, Chore Sipahi, What color What Color you have?

Reading books & Comics was also a habit in those days. Amar Chitra Katha, Chacha Choudhary, Nandan, The Adventures of TinTin, Phantom & Khilona (In Urdu) . I love the craft class. Learning to play with needle and thread & making different stiches was fun, till today this is my favorite pass time. Today’s Kids are more into playing Video Games, watching Cartoons. Really Childhood is the Golden era of Life. 

Maa ki meethi  Pukar ,

kitabon ka ambaar , Ustad ki Dant

Kya din the na fikar na pareshani

Na target Na reporting

Dil se.........

You do not know how much talent or ability you have until you try. The same happened with me. I always had interest in literary work, I wanted to write and thus the beginning of BeautifulAura Blog began a year ago.

I like reading Urdu Poetry and had a thought how nice it would be if I can compose one !! I was lacking something which I did not knew what was It? And my Inspiration came from a thorough gentleman A. Rizvi .I loved his way of expressing. A Man with Strong Values.

Few Weeks ago When I was returning back home from office few lines began to formulate… By the time I reached home it was complete. I was surprised people need silence, peace & mood to composed, but my icebreaking lines came on Scooty amidst of noisy horns J.

I have received so much praises, appreciation and accolades it was beyond my expectation. I did not thought that everyone would like it so much .I am not used to so much of compliments ,I was little embarrassed. These are the ones who encouraged immensely A.Rizvi, Richa di, Yatin Sir & Sk Tiwary Sir. A hearty Thank you for encouraging me with some wonderful words!!  

All I can Say is…….

“Duniya Ki Bhid Mai Kuch Dost Aise Mile…

Ess Nacheez Ka Hosla Itna Bhadhaya ki…..

Pathar Ko Heere Ki Chamak De Diya….. “

Ray of Hope.....

Hope is the word without which life is incomplete.Every individual goes through pain, grief , sorrow & certain amount of jolt in life. Which sometimes break the person to such an extent that they feel death is the only solution.
Life seems a total blackout , seems no reason to live,unable to find ways-where to go? how to go ? Due to continuous  thinking about pain, sorrow or grief, mind gets blocked hence freezing the thinking power.

All of a sudden when you meet someone who really want you to get out of this mess , he gradually starts to understand your weakness & your strength, your positive & negative thoughts.He in a very gentle manner turn all your fear, pain, grief into positive thoughts which in turn leads to a rise of HOPE .

Because of this a person starts realizing that he was wasting his time.There are much more to come.He realizes that not only he but people around him are also suffering in some or the other way .

A lesson learnt ,few resolution made so that in future no such situation can bogg down or overpower .

Thanks to the beautiful soul better call it a hero who comes in with his love & affection to change, to capture the heart with gentle touch.

I hope and pray that those who are in such situation God send them a "hero".

Anniversary !!!!!!

Today is my blog anniversary. It all started a year ago when  I was discussing with one of my collegue, I wanted to pen down my thoughts.Concept of writing a dairy did not go well with me.She said why don't you go for blogging.She explained me in brief and I liked the idea.

There was something which matter most to me that is relationship & carrying it on with trust.

With this thought  "Be Honest and Trustworthy " became my first blog.It was  satisfying to pen down my thoughts.When I published it I got some reader as well.This feeling  of being read gave me immense pleasure.

This gave me the way to jot down what was going in my mind.Like what hurts me, what made me Happy , My experiences , my views , it was like river which got its way to flow carelessly where ever it wanted to & the journey continues....

So wishing my self happy anniversary !!! :)

Prayer -a natural and most powerful healer

I was going through the tweets of one of my  follower.This particular tweet caught my attention " To pray is to let go and let God take over"  & pat came a thought how true it is.it is not just the words but a reality.

Mostly people do not understand how to find solace in their difficult times.Some try to discuss their situation with well wisher, others try to engage themselves in work if available, few find peace in drinking alcohol or taking sleeping pills.

But one thing among these activities what they or it is better to say we forgot to do is to neel down in front of God.we all forget  that God is just testing our courage, determination, our patience,how mature we are to handle the situation.

I have observed this ,those who remember God & have faith in him they have overcome from their miseries in a very soothing way.Their heart is at peace.They no longer weep on their wound that have put scares on their soul.They even do not curse other people for their circumstances. They start getting a feeling that what ever has happened has happened for a reason and we all have to accept it as it is.This is the only way to proceed further in life.

I can very firmly say that  I have learnt to practice this .Which has made a very positive impact on my life.

I would say every person faces difficult times in their life, instead of applying other therapy go for Prayer. The more you pray, the more you gain strenght.Leave everything to God & do whatever best you can do at that point of time, he will take care of the rest.Like he did for me.

I am thankful to my Allah for the grace which he showered upon me.

So do pray when you are happy & in difficult times.He is their to share your sorrow and happiness & trust me he is the most trustworthy source of sharing.

Feeling immensely happy !!!!

I  have read & heard that when you help people in need you will feel happy inside.Its true ..I  have experienced before and the second time I experienced the same last  year when I help one sweet girl to  get a job with good salary which she needed most.

she is very happy & always praises the support that I gave her.Paise does not matter but most important is the feeling I have experienced when she smiles & say "I  am Happy Mam"... This encourages me to do my  level best to help who needed the most.

I am in process of helping one more girl with sweet personality....

Let see how far I can help her....But I Pray to God to give me strenght & capacity to help who wants the most...

Movie pk

Yesterday I saw Raju kumar Hirani's pk.The movies has a very strong story line that binds the audience.It shows how some people is using religion & making money.When it comes to religion people do not use their logical power to question these so called religious managers.In day to day life I see these things.

As usual  brilliant acting by Aamir.I was quite surprise to see Shushant Singh  rajput, the actor who played the lead in "Ek Pavitra Rishta" he was good in the movie.

Songs are not so catchy.Sanjay was awesome as rajisthani munda.

overall total entertainment with a nice & strong message to society & present situation of india.

Aamir has once again proved that once a year means something different & awesome for sure.

Looking forward to such movies.Hats off to the entire cast & crew of the movie ....

A fools invitation. .....

Aazmaye hue ko kaya aazmana..jab pata   ho ki jo kahta h woh karta nahi aur jo karta h woh kahta nahi..... waqt per sab  chore do..waqt sab sikha aur  samjha deta h.....

A year 2014 That will end ....

So December again the last month of the year.This year has been remarkable in the sense that some strong decisions taken by me ,made the way for good life ahead , leaving behind the past.

It was difficult but I was determined to move on in  my life.Nobody can reverse the situation but anybody  can do the new beginning, and this is  what I have done.

I would thank my senior colleague,my guiding spirit Nishank sir for this.He has been along with my  family the motivating factor.

A lot has been learnt on the personal &  professional front.A lesson that has been the changing &  Stimulating factor in my life.All thanks to Allah The beneficial & merciful.

I have become much better person than I was 4-5 years ago.It all happened because of The Almighty Allah.

I hope  that 2015 will bring love, happiness, peace, togetherness, health for  all , my family , friends &  wellwishers.

wishing all my blog readers merry Christmas & happy new year !!!

A Thought !!!!

I was asked by one the news channel at my office how your life changed after Nirbhaya case? Though I replied them what came first in my mind but later on when I gave a thought to the question nothing has changed nor it has  affected neither any difference in the situation pre and post Nirbhaya.

Females was not safe pre Nirbhaya nor they are save post Nirbhaya.We encounter Vulgar slang,Whistling,Comments,double meaning jokes,Talks etc in our daily life.Appreciating the beauty or dress is something different.I have been working for last 12 years and nothing has changed since then.Females are raped not physically but emotionally also.In both the cases Bruise leave a deep scare.This is what I feel.

I have Observed that  males sees a female as "Maal" an object for entertainment.Definitely the age does not matter.Even 75 years old man has the same thought.They some how try to grab the attention of the girl just for pass time in the name of Friendship-Very commonly used,I Love You-one of the best emotional way to attract girl or You are my colleague I get along with you very well.These are all beginning of using the female emotions.It depends on the girl how mature she is to handle this & not let anybody use her.

I am working as HR and girls do come and share their experiences with me.I encourage them to be very confident and firm in dealing such instances.If a female conduct her very confidently and firmly no one will dare to behave in such manner.Precaution is better than cure this applies for female at the same time I think parents should from the beginning teach boys to respect females they should become their friends instead of parents,Because this will help them to know how they are behaving in their absences.Charity begins at home.

We all need to give a thought on this.Day by Day so many males & females across India getting degrees but what are they really earning from education? 

A sweet conversation with friend !!!

I just had a lovely sweet conversation with my long time friend.Although we both are busy in our life but we manage to keep in touch through watsapp.Today we happen to be online at the same time and thus our  good long conversation started.We shared lots of thing & memory with each other.It really made me happy & I mean it.

But at the end while finishing the conversation he said -"Accha laga baat ker k aapse. Once again thanks for giving your time."
I was deeply hurt by this statement.I did not obliged him by talking to him.Infact I love talking to him for hours & hours .I have very special place for this friend of mine.

Importance

It's sad when you realize you aren't as important to someone as you thought you were.

Miss U

★Missing someone is the worst feeling,and that too when u know that u will not be able to see him anymore.

All moments spend together just flash back on  my mind as a film. Those long telephonic talks, sharing romantics feeling for each other, complimenting each other on success ,hours of texting each other.

I love buying things for him.I used to move from one shop to other just to select shirt for him.lot of confusion: no this one good, arrree no this one is looking elegant etc. Finally when he wears it and he too liked it, its the most wonderful feeling ever.

I adore each and every moment we spent together.  For me its like a reason to live .I dont know what is his view.

Supporting each other in the hour of crisis and tension, fighting with other and then saying sorry to each other .

I WILL CHERISH THOSE MEMORIES THROUGH OUT MY LIFE.

At the end I wanna say -

I wanna write "I miss you" on a rock and throw it at your face so you know how much it hurts to miss you.★

5 rules of a relationship

5 rules of a relationship:
1. Stay faithful.
2. Make them feel wanted.
3. Respect your partner.
4. Don't flirt with others.
5. Make time.

I have read these lines on tweeter.we often speak about these thing in very scattered form here it has been summarised in a very simple sentences and words.

Through my friends and people around me I have learn the value of relationship.I have come across a personalities for whom making relations and disregarding them or you can call ditching the relations is as easy as changing t-shirt.

By doing these type of act they are not guilty and its like daily routine work. They move on to make new relations to repeat the same. To avoid any blaming they create false story.

Many years ago one of my friend  has gone through this pain.she was involved with guy . Her marriage was about to be fixed .she was very upset and tried her level best to convince her parents but all her efforts went in vain. Then she asked her BF to come over and decide the future action ie marriage.she along with friend went  to the place and waited there for hours. The guy did not turned up and neither responded on phone. This was the result of  years of spending together, sharing small things ....

I saw my friend her hands blue and tear filled puffy eyes , nothing was in her hand . He could not marry her because he was the only son of his parent and did not want to go against there wish. So at the  time of decision making he realises that he is the only son , what was he doing so long ..he even did not even put up this matter to his parents.

Ultimately my friend has to marry as per her parent wish. This is a true story and these type  of things happens.

The girl has to suffer in these type of relation. The guy moves on without regret and enjoy his life. The girl has to compromise and had to adjust her self to the new partner which she never thought off.

To all the girls and the guys who are in the relationship and the one who is reading follows these small rules. Be faithfull to the person you are in love with.Commitments are made to be fulfilled and through them cherish the beauty of relationship.

Be Honest and Trustworthy

The literal meaning of relationship is the way in which two or more people or things are connected or state of being connected. In other words an emotional bonding between two people is called relationship. Relationship with friends, co-worker, boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife and family are important components of our lives.

As we go through in life we meet variety of people. Relationship can mean different things to different people. As we meet people we develop a relationship with them either in a form of friend, teacher, mentor etc.

But each and every relationship has emotions of its own. It has the bonding of love, faith, trust, honesty, blood relations etc. The blood relations like father, mother, brother, sister are by birth and trust, love; honesty comes naturally to these relations. It does not require too much of nurturing and efforts.

Second the friendship or the relation between two friends are the one which is built on the base of trust ,similar liking, honesty, faith or sometimes circumstances makes  two people friends. These relationship need efforts from both the sides to develop and for long lasting friends has to come forward to fulfil the demands of the friendship, for example-should be there at the time of crisis, whether emotional or financial, celebrating small successes, being miles apart but making a weekly call to say “Hi”, “Hello” gives immense pleasure and strength to the friends and relationship thus gets stronger.

The much talked about the controversial relationship is the boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. In other words love relationship. Every person on this earth wants to fall in love or wants and desire to be loved. It’s the feeling that makes a person fly on seventh cloud. No doubt love makes a person very sensitive and mature in terms of understanding of emotions, verbal and non-verbal behaviour. But among all these merry go round the most important ingredient in this relationship is TRUST and HONESTY towards each other because this is the relationship which is built only and only on TRUST, when two unknown people come close then TRUST is the only thing  which becomes the base of the relationship.

In this relationship small little things can cause trouble and at times can be source of immense joy and Happiness. Many people are being cheated and ditched in this relationship. Love is blind as it is widely said and heard, so when you love someone you tend to believe him/her easily and blindly .This believes and trust is being misused by the other party. This situation is very difficult to handle. Few Questions arises: - What would be the state of mind when he/she ditched the other? What was the thought or plan he/she was making while doing so? Did he or she love the other party? Was love for him/her just for status symbol that he or she possesses girlfriend or boyfriend? Before doing so didn’t he/she thought about the pain or agony the other would go through?

On the other side there are people who are truly in love with their partner and they have given their relationship an important meaning i.e. Marriage. Taking their relationship to another level by the institution of marriage.  It is not that everything   must have been bed of roses but still they stood firm and beard the pain to be together.

In my opinion when you are in love give all what you have i.e. 100% of your love, trust and loyalty no matter what may come. Because when things  does not fall into its place you did not have to suffer from any guilt.

So depth and sincerity should be the most important. One should have few good and rewarding relationships rather than focusing on too many people who slip in and out of your life as and when they please.