Anniversary !!!!!!

Today is my blog anniversary. It all started a year ago when  I was discussing with one of my collegue, I wanted to pen down my thoughts.Concept of writing a dairy did not go well with me.She said why don't you go for blogging.She explained me in brief and I liked the idea.

There was something which matter most to me that is relationship & carrying it on with trust.

With this thought  "Be Honest and Trustworthy " became my first blog.It was  satisfying to pen down my thoughts.When I published it I got some reader as well.This feeling  of being read gave me immense pleasure.

This gave me the way to jot down what was going in my mind.Like what hurts me, what made me Happy , My experiences , my views , it was like river which got its way to flow carelessly where ever it wanted to & the journey continues....

So wishing my self happy anniversary !!! :)

Prayer -a natural and most powerful healer

I was going through the tweets of one of my  follower.This particular tweet caught my attention " To pray is to let go and let God take over"  & pat came a thought how true it is.it is not just the words but a reality.

Mostly people do not understand how to find solace in their difficult times.Some try to discuss their situation with well wisher, others try to engage themselves in work if available, few find peace in drinking alcohol or taking sleeping pills.

But one thing among these activities what they or it is better to say we forgot to do is to neel down in front of God.we all forget  that God is just testing our courage, determination, our patience,how mature we are to handle the situation.

I have observed this ,those who remember God & have faith in him they have overcome from their miseries in a very soothing way.Their heart is at peace.They no longer weep on their wound that have put scares on their soul.They even do not curse other people for their circumstances. They start getting a feeling that what ever has happened has happened for a reason and we all have to accept it as it is.This is the only way to proceed further in life.

I can very firmly say that  I have learnt to practice this .Which has made a very positive impact on my life.

I would say every person faces difficult times in their life, instead of applying other therapy go for Prayer. The more you pray, the more you gain strenght.Leave everything to God & do whatever best you can do at that point of time, he will take care of the rest.Like he did for me.

I am thankful to my Allah for the grace which he showered upon me.

So do pray when you are happy & in difficult times.He is their to share your sorrow and happiness & trust me he is the most trustworthy source of sharing.

Feeling immensely happy !!!!

I  have read & heard that when you help people in need you will feel happy inside.Its true ..I  have experienced before and the second time I experienced the same last  year when I help one sweet girl to  get a job with good salary which she needed most.

she is very happy & always praises the support that I gave her.Paise does not matter but most important is the feeling I have experienced when she smiles & say "I  am Happy Mam"... This encourages me to do my  level best to help who needed the most.

I am in process of helping one more girl with sweet personality....

Let see how far I can help her....But I Pray to God to give me strenght & capacity to help who wants the most...

Movie pk

Yesterday I saw Raju kumar Hirani's pk.The movies has a very strong story line that binds the audience.It shows how some people is using religion & making money.When it comes to religion people do not use their logical power to question these so called religious managers.In day to day life I see these things.

As usual  brilliant acting by Aamir.I was quite surprise to see Shushant Singh  rajput, the actor who played the lead in "Ek Pavitra Rishta" he was good in the movie.

Songs are not so catchy.Sanjay was awesome as rajisthani munda.

overall total entertainment with a nice & strong message to society & present situation of india.

Aamir has once again proved that once a year means something different & awesome for sure.

Looking forward to such movies.Hats off to the entire cast & crew of the movie ....

A fools invitation. .....

Aazmaye hue ko kaya aazmana..jab pata   ho ki jo kahta h woh karta nahi aur jo karta h woh kahta nahi..... waqt per sab  chore do..waqt sab sikha aur  samjha deta h.....

A year 2014 That will end ....

So December again the last month of the year.This year has been remarkable in the sense that some strong decisions taken by me ,made the way for good life ahead , leaving behind the past.

It was difficult but I was determined to move on in  my life.Nobody can reverse the situation but anybody  can do the new beginning, and this is  what I have done.

I would thank my senior colleague,my guiding spirit Nishank sir for this.He has been along with my  family the motivating factor.

A lot has been learnt on the personal &  professional front.A lesson that has been the changing &  Stimulating factor in my life.All thanks to Allah The beneficial & merciful.

I have become much better person than I was 4-5 years ago.It all happened because of The Almighty Allah.

I hope  that 2015 will bring love, happiness, peace, togetherness, health for  all , my family , friends &  wellwishers.

wishing all my blog readers merry Christmas & happy new year !!!

A Thought !!!!

I was asked by one the news channel at my office how your life changed after Nirbhaya case? Though I replied them what came first in my mind but later on when I gave a thought to the question nothing has changed nor it has  affected neither any difference in the situation pre and post Nirbhaya.

Females was not safe pre Nirbhaya nor they are save post Nirbhaya.We encounter Vulgar slang,Whistling,Comments,double meaning jokes,Talks etc in our daily life.Appreciating the beauty or dress is something different.I have been working for last 12 years and nothing has changed since then.Females are raped not physically but emotionally also.In both the cases Bruise leave a deep scare.This is what I feel.

I have Observed that  males sees a female as "Maal" an object for entertainment.Definitely the age does not matter.Even 75 years old man has the same thought.They some how try to grab the attention of the girl just for pass time in the name of Friendship-Very commonly used,I Love You-one of the best emotional way to attract girl or You are my colleague I get along with you very well.These are all beginning of using the female emotions.It depends on the girl how mature she is to handle this & not let anybody use her.

I am working as HR and girls do come and share their experiences with me.I encourage them to be very confident and firm in dealing such instances.If a female conduct her very confidently and firmly no one will dare to behave in such manner.Precaution is better than cure this applies for female at the same time I think parents should from the beginning teach boys to respect females they should become their friends instead of parents,Because this will help them to know how they are behaving in their absences.Charity begins at home.

We all need to give a thought on this.Day by Day so many males & females across India getting degrees but what are they really earning from education?