5 rules of a relationship

5 rules of a relationship:
1. Stay faithful.
2. Make them feel wanted.
3. Respect your partner.
4. Don't flirt with others.
5. Make time.

I have read these lines on tweeter.we often speak about these thing in very scattered form here it has been summarised in a very simple sentences and words.

Through my friends and people around me I have learn the value of relationship.I have come across a personalities for whom making relations and disregarding them or you can call ditching the relations is as easy as changing t-shirt.

By doing these type of act they are not guilty and its like daily routine work. They move on to make new relations to repeat the same. To avoid any blaming they create false story.

Many years ago one of my friend  has gone through this pain.she was involved with guy . Her marriage was about to be fixed .she was very upset and tried her level best to convince her parents but all her efforts went in vain. Then she asked her BF to come over and decide the future action ie marriage.she along with friend went  to the place and waited there for hours. The guy did not turned up and neither responded on phone. This was the result of  years of spending together, sharing small things ....

I saw my friend her hands blue and tear filled puffy eyes , nothing was in her hand . He could not marry her because he was the only son of his parent and did not want to go against there wish. So at the  time of decision making he realises that he is the only son , what was he doing so long ..he even did not even put up this matter to his parents.

Ultimately my friend has to marry as per her parent wish. This is a true story and these type  of things happens.

The girl has to suffer in these type of relation. The guy moves on without regret and enjoy his life. The girl has to compromise and had to adjust her self to the new partner which she never thought off.

To all the girls and the guys who are in the relationship and the one who is reading follows these small rules. Be faithfull to the person you are in love with.Commitments are made to be fulfilled and through them cherish the beauty of relationship.

Be Honest and Trustworthy

The literal meaning of relationship is the way in which two or more people or things are connected or state of being connected. In other words an emotional bonding between two people is called relationship. Relationship with friends, co-worker, boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife and family are important components of our lives.

As we go through in life we meet variety of people. Relationship can mean different things to different people. As we meet people we develop a relationship with them either in a form of friend, teacher, mentor etc.

But each and every relationship has emotions of its own. It has the bonding of love, faith, trust, honesty, blood relations etc. The blood relations like father, mother, brother, sister are by birth and trust, love; honesty comes naturally to these relations. It does not require too much of nurturing and efforts.

Second the friendship or the relation between two friends are the one which is built on the base of trust ,similar liking, honesty, faith or sometimes circumstances makes  two people friends. These relationship need efforts from both the sides to develop and for long lasting friends has to come forward to fulfil the demands of the friendship, for example-should be there at the time of crisis, whether emotional or financial, celebrating small successes, being miles apart but making a weekly call to say “Hi”, “Hello” gives immense pleasure and strength to the friends and relationship thus gets stronger.

The much talked about the controversial relationship is the boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. In other words love relationship. Every person on this earth wants to fall in love or wants and desire to be loved. It’s the feeling that makes a person fly on seventh cloud. No doubt love makes a person very sensitive and mature in terms of understanding of emotions, verbal and non-verbal behaviour. But among all these merry go round the most important ingredient in this relationship is TRUST and HONESTY towards each other because this is the relationship which is built only and only on TRUST, when two unknown people come close then TRUST is the only thing  which becomes the base of the relationship.

In this relationship small little things can cause trouble and at times can be source of immense joy and Happiness. Many people are being cheated and ditched in this relationship. Love is blind as it is widely said and heard, so when you love someone you tend to believe him/her easily and blindly .This believes and trust is being misused by the other party. This situation is very difficult to handle. Few Questions arises: - What would be the state of mind when he/she ditched the other? What was the thought or plan he/she was making while doing so? Did he or she love the other party? Was love for him/her just for status symbol that he or she possesses girlfriend or boyfriend? Before doing so didn’t he/she thought about the pain or agony the other would go through?

On the other side there are people who are truly in love with their partner and they have given their relationship an important meaning i.e. Marriage. Taking their relationship to another level by the institution of marriage.  It is not that everything   must have been bed of roses but still they stood firm and beard the pain to be together.

In my opinion when you are in love give all what you have i.e. 100% of your love, trust and loyalty no matter what may come. Because when things  does not fall into its place you did not have to suffer from any guilt.

So depth and sincerity should be the most important. One should have few good and rewarding relationships rather than focusing on too many people who slip in and out of your life as and when they please.