Tuesday, 18 March 2014

5 rules of a relationship

5 rules of a relationship:
1. Stay faithful.
2. Make them feel wanted.
3. Respect your partner.
4. Don't flirt with others.
5. Make time.

I have read these lines on tweeter.we often speak about these thing in very scattered form here it has been summarised in a very simple sentences and words.

Through my friends and people around me I have learn the value of relationship.I have come across a personalities for whom making relations and disregarding them or you can call ditching the relations is as easy as changing t-shirt.

By doing these type of act they are not guilty and its like daily routine work. They move on to make new relations to repeat the same. To avoid any blaming they create false story.

Many years ago one of my friend  has gone through this pain.she was involved with guy . Her marriage was about to be fixed .she was very upset and tried her level best to convince her parents but all her efforts went in vain. Then she asked her BF to come over and decide the future action ie marriage.she along with friend went  to the place and waited there for hours. The guy did not turned up and neither responded on phone. This was the result of  years of spending together, sharing small things ....

I saw my friend her hands blue and tear filled puffy eyes , nothing was in her hand . He could not marry her because he was the only son of his parent and did not want to go against there wish. So at the  time of decision making he realises that he is the only son , what was he doing so long ..he even did not even put up this matter to his parents.

Ultimately my friend has to marry as per her parent wish. This is a true story and these type  of things happens.

The girl has to suffer in these type of relation. The guy moves on without regret and enjoy his life. The girl has to compromise and had to adjust her self to the new partner which she never thought off.

To all the girls and the guys who are in the relationship and the one who is reading follows these small rules. Be faithfull to the person you are in love with.Commitments are made to be fulfilled and through them cherish the beauty of relationship.